Now I am not saying that there are no good guys out there but where I am from the generation in which I have been brought up in is unfortunately, in a lot of peoples eyes, the last generation to understand childhood and what it is like to be hanging from trees. That sounds terrible. Let me just explain a little bit more. These days children have mobile phone from the ages of 5. Laptops, computers, online everything. When I was that age I was making grass pie and making tree swings. Gosh I am going completely of topic.
With all the technology from a young age comes the whole cheating in relationships and boys just not growing up to be polite gentlemen. It is easy not to trust them whether they are in the wrong or not. There is just so much stuff connected to everything. If somebody wanted to ruin your relationship they just have to go online at some point and write something and nine times out of ten it is off, trust goes out the window and you start to question one and other. Obviously it is not just men that do this. I bet there are more women doing it then men because all they have to do is turn on the water works and everyone feels sorry for them.
My point of this blog is, over the past couple of months I have been staying at friends houses with there boyfriends present. I have been meeting up with family members who have boyfriends and so on. I notice that for example if my friend needed help with something it takes a lot for her boyfriend to come of off what ever he is doing to help her. It wore me out just being there let a lone having to ask his for a solid hour to get a glass of water. I have been watching how they are with each other and I have really come to realize that I have the relationship girls want. We are nearly hitting our 5 year anniversary so I would expect to be comfortable around each other but I really think I have got one of them rare boys who I can completely trust even if somebody decided to write something on line or tell me that he has cheated. I don’t need to worry because I can trust him with my life.
I just think he is amazing. I am spoilt by him. The minute he gets his wages he asks me if there is anything I want. He tells me he loves me and that I am beautiful when I am obviously not at that point. He kisses and cuddles me and makes sure I am OK. If I need anything he is there for me and will go and get whatever I want. Whether it is just downstairs in the kitchen or he has to go to the shop for it. He even puts up with my bad moods I get into because of my wisdom teeth pain. He wants me to go out and enjoy myself even if it means he cant come. Even though he has moved in with my (our) family which means he is used to being around them, he still wants to meet the rest of them. For example. Family from Australia are over and we had a get together with a lot of people even I didn’t know. Unfortunately I had to work for the first part of it but he was keen to go and see them all without me which really made me proud. I love him to pieces and I hope that everybody gets a boyfriend and soon to be husband like mine. Enjoy ❤